“Log Kya Kahenge” All of us must have heard these words at some point of time in our life.This has killed millions of dreams.
What shapes our decisions? Unfortunately,most of us are always busy in attempting to impress others,most of our actions are mere attempts.Most of us don’t follow our dreams and don’t listen to our hearts,just thinking that if I do this thing,then what people will think about me.But one thing,all of us need to understand that “Nobody cares” People are very busy with their own shit and in dealing with their personal fears and concerns.People care much less about what you think,what you do,than you think. Nobody gives a fuck about what you do.
But one thing they always do that,whenever you decide something to do out of the box ,there are always a lot to oppose and make you feel that you are doing wrong and criticise you,demoralise and discourage you.But listen,for someone It’s quite easy to make a comment on your decisons,but for you its going to shape your whole life.
“Don’t let other’s opinion about you to shape your decisions”
All you have to do is “Listen to your heart and do what makes you happy”
Now,you have to decide.
What is more important for you,Your happiness or happiness of those who don’t actually care about you?
I think so,your happiness? Yes? Initially nobody supports you but at the end everybody do.People say thousands of things about you,when you decide to do something,they try to demoralise and discourage you.But overcoming your fears and proving them wrong,is what makes you win,this is what called struggle,those who dare to overcome become examples for the society and those who don’t keep criticising others.
So,do what you like,do what makes YOU happy because at the end it’s your life and you have to deal with it. The most important thing is believing that “You can” and work hard for what you want.Initially people won’t support you,but all you need is your support at that point of time,that’s what going to matter.
“Great people of today’s world were not born great,it was their dedication,hard work and passion,which made them what they are today”
“The most important step between you and your destination is your stepping towards it.You have to begin to reach there”
- Gandhi ji initially started alone,but later on people joined.
- People must have criticised and discouraged even the legends like M.S DHONI and SACHIN TENDULKAR
- SRK was not born as a star,he was a commoner.
Don’t be sad and let conditions depress you. STAY STRONG
Being sad and then being depressed on small things is quite common.There can be a lot of reasons for you becoming depressed such as-failure,jealousy,neglection etc
Depression can really affect your part of life.At times one become depressed because he failed,he could not get what he want and a tons of such reasons.
Don’t let situations depress you.When you don’t get what you wanted.,just close your eyes and put your hand on your heart and say-
“I didn’t get it because something else more valuable is waiting for me”
How to take decisions?
Look,two different decisions in anything may be career,relations etc can take your life in two entirely different directions.But the question is how to decide?
Do one thing:
Take a coin and toss it,while the coin is in the air,listen what your heart wants.
for ex- Let the two options be A and B and toss the coin,if heads then option A and if tails then option B.Now toss the coin.When coin is in the air,listen to your heart which option it wants?Go for that one.
When you do something which passionates you and in which you are interested and crazy for,then you will enjoy working hard for it and you will surely achieve that.
Just Don’t Care About Others Why do you want to impress others? Just for a fucking mere attention…hahahah…. All you need to do is have a good opinion about yourself in your own eyes.When you have a good impression of yourself in your own eyes then automatically you do good deeds and people starts liking you.
Look,you live only once. Do what makes you happy! Just don’t care about, Log Kya Kahenge This life is yours(not of people’s),your actions will affect you the most not others.
So,you have to decide,what you want to do,wasting time in proving yourself in front of others or Do something which makes you happy.
Thank You Raj Deep Chauhan
If you like it,then “Good luck for your life” If not then also Good luck,and I already mentioned I DON’T CARE
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