Jealousy-A threat to yourself

Life is one big road with lot of signs.So when you are riding through the ruts,don’t complicate your mind.Flee from hate and jealousy.Don’t bury your thoughts,put your vision into reality,wake up and live!”             –BOB MARLEYJealousy is a complex emotion that encompasses feelings ranging from fear of abandonment to rage and humiliation,this is how google defines jealousy.But actually there cannot be any proper defination of JEALOUSY like love,emotions etc. It’s just a feeling which makes you hate someone and say bad about him/her.But listen,jealousy is a much more threatening and dangerous emotion,and the irony is that it is threatening and dangerous to you,while you think it is to others,and the problem is that no-one in this world admits that he/she is jealous of someone.

I am not talking about jealousy in love and relationships,that’s another thing. JEALOUSY has tons of other reasons as well which can be more dangerous.

Why do we feel JEALOUS?

There can be a lot of complex reasons of your jealousy and your hatred,,there can be thousands of stupid reasons to feel jealous of someone and hating someone.   

You feel jealous of someone mainly,because:

  • He/she is she is more successful than you.
  • He/she is getting more attention than you,which you want.
  • He/she is happier than you
  • He/she don’t give attention to you.       

Then,all we do is fill our heart with hate,hate and hate for him/her.Then commenting bad about him/her,saying nonsense and abusive words behind his/her back to prove him/her wrong.                                                                                     But Listen,you can trouble someone by doing such shits,but somewhere between hating someone and trying to bring that person down,,you destroy yourself and stop progressing.

How does it affect you?

Listen,while you are commenting bad about someone and doing his/her negative publicity,deep inside,you also know that what you are doing is completely wrong.These stupid actions are an outcome of your jealousy and hatred for someone because, he is better than you.

Do you really think,that your stupid comments and opinion about someone can actually bring that person down and make him feel worse? 

If you think like this,then let me tell you “Nobody Cares about your opinion” So,don’t do such shits and prove that you are an asshole.

When you start doing such stupid things out of your jealousy and try to bring that person down.You actually stop progressing,your success becomes less important than someone else’s failure.You feel happy to see that person unhappy.

So,don’t do such.                                          Just KEEP YOUR FOCUS ON YOUR GOALS and remember you are unique,that particular person is may be better than you at something but not everything.Then,what to do? 

Actually,it’s nearly impossible for anyone,not to feel jealous.

Even the most successful and progressive people also feel jealous of someone at some point of time,but what makes them different from others is the way,they deal with it.They use their jealousy to make their level up,instead of trying to lower other’s level.

Use your JEALOUSY as your Motivation.

It’s easy.                                                             When you feel jealous of someone, then instead of trying to bring that person down,use your jealousy to make your level up.Instead of doing unproductive activities to make that person unhappy,do hard work,go above that person and then that person will become jealous of you.
Whenever you feel jealous,just face yourself.Look at yourself in the mirror and say it to yourself that:I have to go above this person

Use your jealousy as your motivation to work,use it as a pluspoint to make you better and don’t let it make you do nonsense and make you just a jealous piece of shit.

Don’t try to bring someone else down,use your jealousy to make your LEVEL UP

Thank You                                                       RAJ DEEP CHAUHAN

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Be Happy and believe you can

Log Kya Kahenge” All of us must have heard these words at some point of time in our life.This has killed millions of dreams.

What shapes our decisions?                         Unfortunately,most of us are always busy in attempting to impress others,most of our actions are mere attempts.Most of us don’t follow our dreams and don’t listen to our hearts,just thinking that if I do this thing,then what people will think about me.But one thing,all of us need to understand that “Nobody cares” People are very busy with their own shit and in dealing with their personal fears and concerns.People care much less about what you think,what you do,than you think. Nobody gives a fuck about what you do.
But one thing they always do that,whenever you decide something to do out of the box ,there are always a lot to oppose and make you feel that you are doing wrong and criticise you,demoralise and discourage you.But listen,for someone It’s quite easy to make a comment on your decisons,but for you its going to shape your whole life.

“Don’t let other’s opinion about you to shape your decisions”

All you have to do is “Listen to your heart and do what makes you happy”

Now,you have to decide.

What is more important for you,Your happiness or happiness of those who don’t actually care about you?

I think so,your happiness? Yes?                        Initially nobody supports you but at the end everybody do.People say thousands of things about you,when you decide to do something,they try to demoralise and discourage you.But overcoming your fears and proving them wrong,is what makes you win,this is what called struggle,those who dare to overcome become examples for the society and those who don’t keep criticising others.

So,do what you like,do what makes YOU happy because at the end it’s your life and you have to deal with it.                                    The most important thing is believing that “You can” and work hard for what you want.Initially people won’t support you,but all you need is your support at that point of time,that’s what going to matter.

“Great people of today’s world were not born great,it was their dedication,hard work and passion,which made them what they are today”

“The most important step between you and your destination is your stepping towards it.You have to begin to reach there”

  • Gandhi ji initially started alone,but later on people joined.
  • People must have criticised and discouraged even the  legends like M.S DHONI and SACHIN TENDULKAR
  • SRK was not born as a star,he was a commoner. 

      Don’t be sad and let conditions depress you. STAY STRONG
      Being sad and then being depressed on small things is quite common.There can be a lot of reasons for you becoming depressed such as-failure,jealousy,neglection etc

      Depression can really affect your part of life.At times one become depressed because he failed,he could not get what he want and a tons of such reasons.

      Don’t let situations depress you.When you don’t get what you wanted.,just close your eyes and put your hand on your heart and say-  

      I didn’t get it because  something else more valuable is waiting for me”

      How to take decisions?

      Look,two different decisions in anything may be career,relations etc can take your life in two entirely different directions.But the question is how to decide?

      Do one thing:

      Take a coin and toss it,while the coin is in the air,listen what your heart wants.             

      for ex-                                                       Let the two options be A and B and toss the coin,if heads then option A and if tails then option B.Now toss the coin.When coin is in the air,listen to your heart which option it wants?Go for that one.

      When you do something which passionates you and in which you are interested and crazy for,then you will enjoy working hard for it and you will surely achieve that.

      Just Don’t Care About Others                        Why do you want to impress others? Just for a fucking mere attention…hahahah….    All you need to do is have a good opinion about yourself in your own eyes.When you have a good impression of yourself in your own eyes then automatically you do good deeds and people starts liking  you.

      Look,you live only once.                           Do what makes you happy!                     Just don’t care about,                                 Log Kya Kahenge                                    This life is yours(not of people’s),your actions will affect you the most not others.                  

      So,you have to decide,what you want to do,wasting time in proving yourself in front of others or Do something which makes you happy.       

                        

      Thank You                                                           Raj Deep Chauhan                                           

      If you like it,then “Good luck for your life”                                                              If not then also Good luck,and I already mentioned I DON’T CARE

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